10-18-09 -Finding
the dress - By Dai
I thought that all the tales about “once you put on ‘the
one’ that you will know that’s the one” were all just
tales after trying one dress # 25. Don’t get me wrong,
all dresses I was trying on were so beautiful but I
didn’t feel connected to one, so I was thinking it would
be so hard to just pick one out of all the pretty
dresses I was trying.
Wedding dress shopping was so amazing and exciting
especially having my mom with me and my moh, although I
do feel bad that there were days that I forgot to fit
into the itinerary Lunch :-( oops but I am absolute sure
now looking back to at my madness and crazy schedule, at
the amount of driving I did (there was one day I went to
almost all 5 Boros on NYC in one day!) … that it was all
worth it!
As always I had a game plan to go to as many stores as I
could in the search for ‘the one’. I want (mostly for my
sake) count how many dresses I ended up trying, so here
is a summary of the dress shopping schedule:
Date |
Store |
# Dresses |
Comments |
August 20 |
Kleinfelds |
5 |
I was so disappointed with the collection and
the amount of money they were charging for what
I tried on. I did enjoy trying on the Disney
collection dresses, but they just didn’t wow me.
|
August 21 |
RK Bridal |
6 |
I really loved two dresses in the store. It gave
me so much hope after Kleinfelds and I was very
excited about the two that I liked. They were my
‘maybe the ones’ but since it was the beginning
of the journey I had nothing else to compare it
to so I was convinced that one of those two
could be my wedding dress. |
August 21 |
The Bridal Shop at Mamaroneck |
7 |
I had the least enjoyable experience of trying
on wedding dresses in this store just because
how the owner run the store and the dressing
rooms were awful, but a bad enviroment to be
trying on wedding dresses. Again, here I found
another amazing dress. Very different from the
other two but the problem I was starting to have
was that most places didn’t let me take
pictures, so I have having problems remembering
how I looked. So I had to go home and find each
of the three dresses online and that helped me
to at least removed the one from this store from
the contenders because it didn’t compare.
|
August 24 |
Store in NYC |
1 |
While walking in NYC, me and my mom saw this
store and decided to go inside and see if I
could try a dress. It was pretty but didn’t seem
like a reputable store, so I decided to just
leave it at that one dress that I tried and move
on. |
August 25 |
Macys at Herald square |
5 |
Here, yet again, I found another dress to add to
the ‘could be the one’ list. My mom and moh
loved this one dress, but honestly I didn’t feel
like it was ‘MY’ dress. It was really beautiful,
I just didn’t feel that “je ne sais quoi” but I
just added to the list of could be’s.
|
August 26 |
Dolores Bridal Boutique |
2 |
We had an appointment to Macys at Menlo after
and decided to go to this store in front of the
mall. Saw one pretty dress, but that was about
it… pretty but not my wedding dress.
|
August 26 |
Macys at Menlo |
5 |
Up to this point I have tried on about 25
dresses… and then all of the sudden I smiled
like I hadn’t smiled before! The dress couldn’t
have been more perfect even in my imagination...
it was just perfection and I even had that ‘aha’
moment and said to myself “So it is true! You do
know when you have found the one”. But even
then, I was hesitant because what if this
feeling was not real and there was another dress
better than this one. I still believe in my
first instinct after left a deposit but I felt
like I had to continue looking, if anything to
get reaffirmation that this was the one.
|
August 27 |
Bridals by Roma |
3 |
Now that I had the one that I thought was “the
one” everything I tried was just comparing it
back to that one. In this store they had one of
the original dresses I picked at the Macys
Herald square and I knew that after comparing it
to my dress, it didn’t compare. So I was
starting to feel relieved and excited about now
‘my soon to dress’ |
August 28 |
Juliusbridal |
4 |
This place was honestly
just scary in a way. I found it through wedding
message boards of a place that made their own
dresses at a fraction of the cost but supposedly
looked really nice and well made… But to me that
was definitely not the case. Some were plain
scary, others were not bad but still not a dress
that I would ever wear to my wedding. However,
coming to this store ended up to being one of
the best things that ever happened because they
had me try on the dresses using ‘a hop’ shirt
underneath. All other stores I was just using a
‘crinoline’
slip and it just didn’t do it, but this hop was
really absolute perfect so I bought it on the
stop. |
August 28 |
Macys at Manhasset |
4 |
Now here starts a dress dilemma, because I found
a dress that was very very similar to mine but
from next years collection since it was a trunk
show. The dress was very similar but I thought
that there were things I liked from this dress
more than mine and viceversa. Since the dress
would only be there for the weekend, I had to
figure out if I wanted this dress more becusae
it had to be order before the trunkshow was
over, so I had two days to think and keep
trying on dresses. |
August 29 |
Park Avenue Bridals |
5 |
In this store I found one pretty dress that if I
hadn’t found my dress before I would have put it
in the contender category but now it was just in
the pretty dress category. The lady was too
pushy and wanted me to keep trying on dresses
even though I really didn’t want to, plus they
were late of our appointment. It really ruins
the experience when they don’t make you feel
special. |
August 29 |
Bijou Bridal |
4 |
The store had pretty dresses, just none for my
taste and what I was looking for. I did found a
dress that made me feel like ‘sleeping beuaty’
and my and my moh had a great idea (we thought
at the time) that each bridesmaid and the moh
should each dress in different colors and be my
fairy good mothers (PS: this is that one day
that it was now 4pm and I made them skip lunch,
so I think we were all hallucinating).
|
August 29 |
Macys at Menlo |
1 |
Since I felt like I had to make my decision of
the dress that weekend in case I wanted the
dress from the trunk show, I also had my moh
come see the dress I had picked to be ‘my dress’
and compare it the day after when we would all
go to see the other. Again, as soon as I put on
the dress I just couldn’t stop smiling and my
mom noticed how my smile with this dress was
completely different than any other. We took
pictures and trying to keep the mental image so
that when we would have to go to compare it to
the other dress the next day. |
August 30 |
Macys at Manhasset |
1 |
My mom and moh were there (Anthony was actually
waiting in the car downstairs since we were also
doing flower shopping that day) to compare the
trunk show dress to my dress. And again, we all
felt in a dilemma, I was very difficult only
comparing one dress at a time, but the consensus
were that the top of my dress was much prettier,
the one thing we liked about the trunk show
dress was the additional beading on the skirt.
But I also had to keep in mind that I had put a
deposit on my dress at Menlo. The manager at
Manhasset suggested that I wait until the Menlo
Macys had their trunk show which would be in a
couple of weeks and that way I could try both
dresses on at the same time… and we agreed that
was the best decision. |
September 4 |
Macys at Menlo |
2 |
Kim from Menlo (which honestly was the nicest
manager that we encountered – along with Karen
who was the consultant) had requested that the
dress that I was thinking about be taken off
from the trunk show earlier and shipped to her
store so that I could try on both dresses while
my mom was still in town.
I tried them both and I’m a so happy we waiting
until we had both dresses together at the same
time because I was able to see how my original
dress, just as it was, was absolutely
perfect!!!! And that was it the final “This is
my Wedding dress moment” ! |
08-18-09 -Welcome to the site! - By Dai
I want to just express how excited I am that the wedding
site is done. It turned out SO much better than I ever
expected. I know I can speak for Anthony that he is also
excited that it is also completed but mainly so that I
do not ask him to create something new to site!
For the first blog I thought it would be appropriate to
talk about the website and all the little things we went
though in order to have it come out the way it did. We
have been working on it since April! So
it took a lot of work, a lot of hours (some of
aggravation) but since we made it from scratch there
were a lot of
the ideas that I thought would work well.... however
they just
didn’t. So, a lot of time was spent trying all the
different ideas that I would come up with... and now
after seeing how it turned out I think it was well worth it. So
Thank you honey for all your work, dedication, patience
and love!
Background:
Since the beginning, I knew I wanted the site to sparkle
as much as it could and I think we did that successfully
with: the background, the silver divider and the roses.
There was some hesitation about making the background so
dark, and we did tried other lighter background colors,
but the one we picked (since the beginning) was really
perfect and the only one that would make all the
different elements in the site look cohesive, but by no
means the dark color is a resemblance of what the actual
wedding day colors will be.
Flash:
I had the inspiration of each of the elements of the
beginning flash and Anthony really made it come to
life... After a whole day of work but it really worked!
I picked each one of the pictures, the divider and then
we were able to create the flash as a preempt of the
site and of the wedding. The castle was important to
have somehow in the site since that is where we got
engaged and then we added Tinkerbell manually for her to
fly in to the page. I love how it came out and the sign
we created came out so well that we added it at the top
of the actual site as well (but this time the divider
was able to sparkle which made it even better!).
Site:
My #1 request for our reception hall was that there
should be chandeliers and therefore I had to have them
in our site too! It took a few hours of research and
after about 15 different ones that we tried on the site,
we found the perfect ones = very shiny! I wanted the
sidebar to be different and I came across address labels
that had the ‘Cinderella/Fairytale’ theme and thought
that it would look good to have as icon for the side
bars. Since they were all different colors, the site
didn’t look very cohesive, so we thought of
making them all black and white and then when the mouse
is over the actual color would come up, along with
stars. Of course, that meant that each icon had to be
created twice on Photoshop and added to the site.
Originally, the right sidebar background
was a picture of static red roses but we found sparkly rose background (when looking for a new background) and my
mom suggested the idea of putting those, not as the
background of the page but of the sidebar instead of the
static roses which even added more sparkle! She also
came up with the idea of adding a type of
scroll/parchment paper to play off the ‘royal’ idea and
after a lot of research we found the perfect one. Again
using Photoshop, we made the image smaller so that we
can carry the theme thought out each of the pages of the
site.
Of course the MUSIC! I knew I wanted music and I knew it
had to be from Disney because it really defines our
relationship and the song ‘Wishes’ which is the song
played at Magic Kingdom during the Fireworks couldn’t
have been more perfect. First, that was the show that we
saw after our engagement and every time we go to Disney,
and it just the epitome of Anthony and I and our
relationship so we Love it!
So as you can see a LOT of detail and work went to this
side and we really hope that you have enjoyed looking at
is as much as we enjoyed making it!
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